How to be alone and ok?

你嘗試過在Google 打上”How to be alone and ok?”, 等著Google 教你如果面對孤單寂莫？Google 的Searchology應該未有如此成熟的，雖然這個會是Google 未來的發展方向。好的，Google 未能為你效勞，那就請教真人吧。

Wikipedia 你可能用得多，不過WikiHow可能是第一次聽了。我也是不小心下在iGoogle 上加了這一個RSS Feed 在網頁。利用Wikipedia一般的Web2.0 concept，WikiHow也是由一群來自五湖四海的人，把自己的生活智慧點滴寫在這個生活百科全書。細心一看，內容涵蓋大部份生活話題，由園藝到電腦IT知識，宗教哲學到個人護理，應有盡有。

Copy and Paste “How to be alone and ok?” 給大家看看吧~ 希望對大家有用，對我就用不著了…

(http://www.wikihow.com/Be-Alone-and-Be-Ok)

1. Learn something new.
   • Learning is the most important aspect of living alone. It helps to keep the boogieman away, and also gives you something to talk about when you do have to actually enter society.
   • Learning is also incredibly more efficient when you don’t have social responsibilities like family to take care of, or a girlfriend to entertain.
   • Learning isn’t just exclusive to books (although they are a great source of knowledge). You can learn to do anything by just practicing. Enrolling in classes is fun and also helps with the social life – you will meet new people in your classes. If you’re not so much into the meeting people, the Internet is a great way to learn pretty much everything (That’s what this site’s for!).
   • Consider learning: Indoor Activities: A Foreign Language, Painting, Yoga, Art Appreciation, A Musical Instrument such as piano or flute. Outdoor Activities: Gardening,Fencing, Tennis, Golf. Or Combination – things you can do indoors and out: Photography, Drawing.
2. Get a pet.
   • Humans need affection, without it they become bitter and hate the world around them. Pets are always a source of affection and will give loads of it endlessly.
   • Pets also provide someone to talk to. No, it’s not weird that you talk to your pet, it’s weird if you don’t. Just be cautious that your pet doesn’t talk back. If so, seek professional help.
   • If you are aloof and self-sufficient, tropical fish, hamsters, budgies or finches are great choices. If you like a little interaction, but not a lot of maintenance, try a cat. If you want to be very hands-on, spend lots of time and get lots of feedback, a dog is for you.

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太詳細了，不盡錄~

我如何看Blog?

有朋友跟我說，日記不是Blog。這一點是認同的，不過Blog是否也可以加入一止生活細節呢？

我想是可以的。我明白對某一些東西有堅持是好，不過，在有關網上的事情，我會相對放鬆一點點。想法或見解，往往會從生活的體驗和經歷一點一點的積累沈澱。對我來說，Blog 就是把自己想法有系統地表達、分享的好地方。

大家可能都會有寫東西貼在網上的習慣，有多少篇文章的內容，你是可以在與朋友見面時談及的？可能是太正經了一點，朋友間出來吹吹水是可以，如果突然轉話題講人生的意義，相信你的朋友一定會 O 嘴…..Blog在這一方面就是如此重要。

我是比較多一點胡思亂想的人，不過，叫我每次寫Blog 也要正經八本地探討問題，我就不太喜歡，好像是太大壓力了。世界發生太多事，不是每一件事我也有能力去探討，更不要談興趣和發表有個性的見解。在這個大前題下，我想，寫自己喜歡的就是了。